tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post411729661321886698..comments2024-03-28T05:55:14.986-04:00Comments on Golden Kaleidoscope: I'm fat and attractive, you should date me….I think.Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12903136654847449462noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-66871733531972615042024-03-06T08:43:10.856-05:002024-03-06T08:43:10.856-05:00Our health is our most precious possession, yet it...Our health is our most precious possession, yet it's something many of us take for granted. To live our best lives, we must prioritize our well-being above all else. This means making conscious choices to eat nutritious foods, stay active, and manage stress effectively. Regular visits to healthcare professionals for check-ups and screenings are crucial for maintaining good health. By taking proactive steps to care for ourselves, we can enjoy a higher quality of life and better longevity. Remember, every decision we make today impacts our health tomorrow. For expert guidance on optimizing your health, visit <a href="https://foresthillsaudiology.com/hearing-aids/" rel="nofollow">https://foresthillsaudiology.com/hearing-aids/</a>.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-24002889144172451502015-09-13T14:36:04.827-04:002015-09-13T14:36:04.827-04:00I tend to do this sometimes. Doubting that guys ca...I tend to do this sometimes. Doubting that guys can genuinely like you for something that they see as a flaw. But I've also came across a few that say they're interested because they've never been with a big girl before.. which sucks big time... so every once in awhile I will ask you why are you attracted to me..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-3488973071771451072015-05-06T00:46:52.129-04:002015-05-06T00:46:52.129-04:00I have def done this cute guy tried to talk to an ...I have def done this cute guy tried to talk to an awkward chubby me and I ask him sooo your a chubby chaser huh... he was like whatt.. needless to say that conversation ended abruptly...lol, and he didnt look back..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-11600861029078524662015-03-27T17:51:22.242-04:002015-03-27T17:51:22.242-04:00this is a good article - I still don't know ho...this is a good article - I still don't know how to get over my issues with confidence & self esteem though. one day I was making out with this guy friend (fwb), I have been hanging out with him for a while & he asked me "what if we fall in love" & I didn't say anything I just kissed him. but after I got home & thought about it... I never thought anyone could fall in love with me! I feel so disgusted with myself! & after being raised by my very judgmental dad & being married to a very judgmental man for 14 years I have a pretty good idea of what a lot of men think of women & its really hard to think people can be different than the ones I've been around my whole life. so in my mind they think of me like I think of myself.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-19208012550542549502015-03-04T05:51:28.690-05:002015-03-04T05:51:28.690-05:00I needed this lots. Captain fake confidence right ...I needed this lots. Captain fake confidence right here haha thanks love xAdeleinanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-65784563932959809022015-03-04T01:44:09.448-05:002015-03-04T01:44:09.448-05:00A friend of mine posted this on Facebook. I'm ...A friend of mine posted this on Facebook. I'm one of those men who loves plus-sized women. Kudos to you sis! DJ Kool Emdeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11788102033895230363noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-39965155941462350472015-03-04T00:00:07.787-05:002015-03-04T00:00:07.787-05:00I SOOOOOO needed to read this. I was literally in ...I SOOOOOO needed to read this. I was literally in the shower just asking myself those questions about a guy who is interested in me, but why? As if I'm undesirable. I have this convo with my friends all the time too. they are constantly complimenting me and assuring me of my beauty, and I just tear it down...it's crazy that I equate beauty with size, and I am over it! Thank you! it was right on time, and PERFECTLY written....what happened to you and the guy any way? Hope it turned out well! Many blessings! Walk'Er Lighthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01202305495019615541noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-88686382418955916872015-03-02T03:58:50.756-05:002015-03-02T03:58:50.756-05:00Fabulously said...my experience hasn't been th...Fabulously said...my experience hasn't been that extreme but through most of my teenage years there was definitely a niggling feeling that intimacy was something...others did. <br />Now there's a boy who literally can't keep his hands off me, soo... 😎👌Tallulahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06121722655672140287noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-47991288832156837852015-02-24T10:16:35.882-05:002015-02-24T10:16:35.882-05:00Thank you for this post. I have done this and it...Thank you for this post. I have done this and it stops today. I am going to seriously give the guy who has been hitting on me a chance. Thanks again!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00349616565762805892noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-10089228832058983752015-01-08T14:17:51.874-05:002015-01-08T14:17:51.874-05:00Interesting post and I actually got a laugh out of...Interesting post and I actually got a laugh out of it. I don't know if to say that fatties are easy targets or what. I don't believe we men really look at fat girls in that way; as easy targets. But from my experience as someone who picks up women for a living and a sport, fat girls are harder targets than slim women. Reason for that varies but I don't have to time to get into it. But good article though.Kenny the pickup artisthttp://kennyspuathoughts.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-88439189971248790562015-01-03T23:22:04.717-05:002015-01-03T23:22:04.717-05:00This article was so poignant and so right on time ...This article was so poignant and so right on time for me!!! I had to print for the first day of my gratitude journal for 2015! I have struggled with this exact issue for the past few years and had to learn to cut people from my life who chose to perpetuate the "easy target" myth instead of rejecting those stereotypes. Thank you for this, it means so much to know that others feel the same way I do!!!E. Michelle @ the_bangnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-46345205203845569572014-12-17T20:15:40.413-05:002014-12-17T20:15:40.413-05:00I agree with this 100%,I don't get approached ...I agree with this 100%,I don't get approached by men because I've noticed that a lot of men in the past used to come right out and assume that they could do any and everything with me because I was a plus size woman. They would say, "oh well, I'm sure you don't date a lot and I know it's "been awhile" One guy even told me that I should lose 100 lbs and he would take me seriously in terms of dating. So eventually I made sure I didn't bring attention to myself when I was out. Now that I've gotten older and started wearing better things out and make up I still feel shocked when a man hits me up, it's very rare though cause I still have a resting bitch face no matter what. I think it's good advice not to ask those questions, or mention their past relationships in terms of looks and stuff. It's really not needed. Elle @ (Eat.Style.Play)https://www.blogger.com/profile/06237339378013084155noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-52779040703101450572014-12-12T10:06:20.898-05:002014-12-12T10:06:20.898-05:00This is a winning post! Love it.This is a winning post! Love it.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00071939535592554835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-90103113602416783592014-12-12T03:31:06.105-05:002014-12-12T03:31:06.105-05:00this great read... insecurities is one of the chal...this great read... insecurities is one of the challenges of plus size ladies. not even their weight. we judge ourself even b4 seeing ourself... we should love ourselves no matter the sizeJennifer Ogoo Okolohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08783338354523212553noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-27043947325166974742014-12-11T19:54:15.814-05:002014-12-11T19:54:15.814-05:00ah this is great. I think we all had to hit that r...ah this is great. I think we all had to hit that realization and when you do, it will be fine. I find myself not even thinking, not to the first because I am me. I am so worried about their personality than my weight. Emikos Weird Unexplained thoughtshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02179532351583488352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9058429880683413693.post-718348280341531502014-12-11T09:56:43.992-05:002014-12-11T09:56:43.992-05:00I have done this myself! Embarrassing now that I t...I have done this myself! Embarrassing now that I think about it. MissEbony2Uhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15739903345758341405noreply@blogger.com